
Consent and negotiation get a lot of attention in kink. But what about the ethical engines that drove us here?
From the origins of Western philosophy to BDSM culture today, conflicting concepts and formal schools of thought have shaped how we currently understand right and wrong. But what does it mean to act ethically in kink, and who gets to decide? How do we distinguish ethics from morals, social expectations, and the law? Is doing what’s consented to the same as doing what's right?
Join us to connect the dots between ethical frameworks and the norms and expectations within our kink communities - and the hard choices we face as kinksters every day.

LadyRed interviews Sir Panda about his history in the kink lifestyle, and topics related to his class "Your Kink Is Not My Kink - But Is Your Kink OK?" Click the link above to watch interview.
Panelist: "Is it Community Service or Unpaid Labor?"
December 5, 2026
7:00 pm EST
In the kink community, volunteers make the world go round. But do they feel appreciated, or exploited? How should they be trained and compensated? This panel is for volunteers, event organizers, presenters, and anyone interested in all things volunteering.
Hosted by Pragmatically Kinking. @Pragmatickink on Facebook, RSVP on FetLife.
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Sir Panda chats with host Dawn all about attachment theory and BDSM, and has a conversation about consent language and consent injuries.
All classes, podcasts, and other appearances are for adults ages 18 and up.
