
Power. Authority. Dominance. Control. We often use these words interchangeably, but while there are commonalities, they are far from the same. Understanding the distinction between power and authority can improve leadership and effective decision making, as well as recognizing if you are being responsibly Dominated, wisely led, or simply coerced and abused. Awareness of the interplay of power and authority fosters clear roles, increased security, and greater personal fulfillment in healthy relationships.
In this class, Sir Panda draws the important distinctions between authority and power and examines the forms and sources of both - both legitimate and not. With an examination the foundations of power, formal vs. informal authority - as well as resistance to authority - and the role that reason and empathy play in different paradigms, the presentation works towards not only an understanding of differences, but describing how an enlightened approach can lead to more balanced dynamics.

Power. Authority. Dominance. Control. We often use these words interchangeably, but while there are commonalities, they are far from the same. Understanding the distinction between power and authority can improve leadership and effective decision making, as well as recognizing if you are being responsibly Dominated, wisely led, or simply coerced and abused. Awareness of the interplay of power and authority fosters clear roles, increased security, and greater personal fulfillment in healthy relationships.
In this class, Sir Panda draws the important distinctions between authority and power and examines the forms and sources of both - both legitimate and not. With an examination the foundations of power, formal vs. informal authority - as well as resistance to authority - and the role that reason and empathy play in different paradigms, the presentation works towards not only an understanding of differences, but describing how an enlightened approach can lead to more balanced dynamics.

Being exposed to certain kinks can provoke feelings of disgust, anxiety, even jealousy. This class dives into the four principles of Your Kink Is Not My Kink, how to manage different emotional reactions when a particular kink triggers us, how to avoid kink shaming, and how to embrace sex positivity. Utilizing self-soothing, good judgement, and empathy, we may finally reach "But Your Kink Is OK."

LadyRed interviews Sir Panda about his history in the kink lifestyle, and topics related to his class "Your Kink Is Not My Kink - But Is Your Kink OK?" Click the link above to watch interview.
Panelist: "Is it Community Service or Unpaid Labor?"
December 5, 2026
7:00 pm EST
In the kink community, volunteers make the world go round. But do they feel appreciated, or exploited? How should they be trained and compensated? This panel is for volunteers, event organizers, presenters, and anyone interested in all things volunteering.
Hosted by Pragmatically Kinking. @Pragmatickink on Facebook, RSVP on FetLife.
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Sir Panda chats with host Dawn all about attachment theory and BDSM, and has a conversation about consent language and consent injuries.
All classes, podcasts, and other appearances are for adults ages 18 and up.
